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Liberation of the Captive Balls

We have been experimenting with keeping C in chastity for the last month, but have finally had to stop. It's been frustrating, but I have learned a lot from the experience. For the benefit of others, and myself in the future, I can condense everything I learned into these small nuggets: To reduce chafing in a captive ball device: the tube should be small enough that it is usually full, the A ring should be small enough that it's never loose, and the whole thing should be as small and as light as possible. This will reduce the amount that the device will move while being worn. The A ring should also be loose enough that when the tube does move it slides over the skin rather that rubbing or tugging it. To securely lock someone in a captive ball device: the gap between the A ring and the tube must be small enough that the balls can't fit through, or the A ring has to be small enough that neither the penis nor either ball can come out while it's locked in place. The gap in

Chores as Kink

C has been doing really well as our first houseboy. He's been coming over about twice a week, which seems to be a good pace. He does a few basic chores every time he comes over: change the cat litter, sweep the floors, do dishes, and clean the kitchen. Once a week we add some other chore like wiping down the counters or cleaning behind the stove. It has made a huge difference. Our home looks so much better now than it used to. I had worried that I would stop doing chores if someone else started, but I'm doing just as much as before, even sometimes while C is doing his. The difference now is that I am doing different ones that used to get put off. My office is more organized, computer chores are getting done, and I've made progress on a few little projects around the house that I've wanted to do since we moved in. This may change if I get more accustomed to a house boy, but for now the result is fantastic. In terms of kink, it is a strange one. I don't fantasize