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One Year and All is Well

It's been exactly one year today since I started this blog, and so far I am thrilled with the results. A lot has happened in the last year. We had a great run with C, got to try lots of new things and made a really good first effort at training a houseboy. I made some new friends, though I also lost some. On the whole, in both kink and my personal life, things have improved. Speaking purely in terms of statistics, this blog has been successful. I'm currently getting around 300 page views a month, which is way better than my professional blog. Over 80% of the visitors to this site come from links in my profiles and posts on various forums, 8% come from searches, and about 5% comes from users subscribed to the rss feed. Of my 15 posts, the one with the most clicks was Guilt . I've got a long way to go before I'll be the biggest site on the Internet, but it's not bad for my first year. The most rewarding aspect of blogging has been the comments I've received

Exploring Sexual Contact

After several months without having anyone over, C recently paid us a visit. We skipped the normal chores, and spent the better part of a day playing. He was kept naked, was usually bound, and was occasionally gagged, blindfolded, or plugged. I tormented his nipples, and rubbed his penis alternating between the nice way, and the not so nice way. I even used the ball vice and the cane at the same time. Though all of that was fun, the real highlight of the visit was a first for me. I have always kept submissives at arms length sexually. I play with them, but never allow them to do anything for me. A sub would always be naked, and I would always be clothed. I would touch, rub, squeeze, or pinch anywhere I want to, but never allow a sub more than kissing my hands or feet. Though I get extremely aroused while playing with a sub, I never wanted more. During his last couple visits, before the hiatus, I started thinking about crossing that barrier. It's not that I had never been w