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One Year and All is Well


It's been exactly one year today since I started this blog, and so far I am thrilled with the results.

A lot has happened in the last year. We had a great run with C, got to try lots of new things and made a really good first effort at training a houseboy. I made some new friends, though I also lost some. On the whole, in both kink and my personal life, things have improved.

Speaking purely in terms of statistics, this blog has been successful. I'm currently getting around 300 page views a month, which is way better than my professional blog. Over 80% of the visitors to this site come from links in my profiles and posts on various forums, 8% come from searches, and about 5% comes from users subscribed to the rss feed. Of my 15 posts, the one with the most clicks was Guilt. I've got a long way to go before I'll be the biggest site on the Internet, but it's not bad for my first year.

The most rewarding aspect of blogging has been the comments I've received. I put an awful lot of work into each post, so it really helps knowing that the effort is appreciated. I spend an average of six hours on each post. My last post, for example, was edited six times over more than a week. I will admit that I am a perfectionist, but I also want to make sure I'm not wasting the time of the people who do stop in to read what I have to say.

I've enjoyed writing about these subjects that I care about, and have no plans to stop. Let's see if I can beat my records this year.
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  1. AnonymousApril 5, 2015 at 3:01 PM

    Can only say, I like your writing skills, as well as your dom skills. Your blog and effort is appreciated. I am so happy reading your blog, I recognize a lot you write, being submissive and expecting from a Master. Expecting may not sound as what a submissive is permitted, but in my opinion there must be a match between dom and sub in both directions. Thank you for all the hours of work.
    If I were near you, I would have loved to get in contact with you.

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    1. MrMeanyPantsApril 5, 2015 at 10:53 PM

      Thanks Anonymous. It's really nice to know that my work is appreciated. :)

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