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Exploring Sexual Contact


After several months without having anyone over, C recently paid us a visit.

We skipped the normal chores, and spent the better part of a day playing. He was kept naked, was usually bound, and was occasionally gagged, blindfolded, or plugged. I tormented his nipples, and rubbed his penis alternating between the nice way, and the not so nice way. I even used the ball vice and the cane at the same time.

Though all of that was fun, the real highlight of the visit was a first for me.

I have always kept submissives at arms length sexually. I play with them, but never allow them to do anything for me. A sub would always be naked, and I would always be clothed. I would touch, rub, squeeze, or pinch anywhere I want to, but never allow a sub more than kissing my hands or feet. Though I get extremely aroused while playing with a sub, I never wanted more.

During his last couple visits, before the hiatus, I started thinking about crossing that barrier. It's not that I had never been with the right people, but more than I had never spent so long playing with the same person before. As I started to feel more comfortable around him, the idea of letting him take care of more than just the chores became easier. When we recently started talking again, and he confessed a desire to try giving oral, I couldn't resist.

I started by getting him used to having his head between my legs. About an hour into the visit, while he was laying on his back with his arms pinned, I slid my pants off quietly. He was gagged and blindfolded, so he couldn't tell what I was doing. I squatted down over him, pressing my balls and cock up against his face and holding it there.

"Do you know what that is?" I asked. He certainly did.

It was exciting, thrilling in a way I had never felt. He was unable to resist, but he didn't try to. I was asserting my control over him, physically and symbolically, and it stirred up deep, primal feelings of power. He was forced to smell my scent, and something about that really pushed my buttons.

Later, I decided to continue along the same lines. I sat down on the couch with a book while he knelt on some cushions in front of me. I clipped a leash to his neck, tucked it under my leg, and pulled it in so that his face was pressed against my balls. It would have been an unusual sight, but it felt nice. Not only was I filled with a deep feeling of power, but I had a warm body keeping me cozy.

I tested him periodically to measure his obedience. At some point he started licking my balls as a way to show respect. Then after I got up for something, he put his face back between my legs without the leash. By the time I had finished reading, after about an hour and a half, he would quickly return to that position without any instructions at all.

I don't think it was enjoyable for him. I know that his knees were sore from kneeling so long, but more than that, it would be boring, and there was no direct stimulation. He didn't complain however, even when asked. It should have made him feel submissive; he is the kind of person that enjoys being pushed, and feeling powerless. Either way, I knew that he was ready for more.

After a bit of a pause, I simply looked at him, looked down at my crotch, then looked up to him again and smiled. He turned bright red, and my wife grinned from ear to ear. I said, "you know what I want."

Without any other encouragement, he came forward, lowered his head, and started licking my shaft. Then he put his lips around the tip and started moving up and down. He kept at it for a good fifteen minutes before I finally allowed him to stop.

Though I didn't have an orgasm, I enjoyed the experience. Pushing him in that way and testing his willingness to serve was a lot of fun. Now that I've opened the doorway, it's something I want to explore further. Only time will tell how far it will go.
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