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Ball Stretching

Chastity has been one of my goals for C from the very beginning. Not only am I a big fan, but it's one of his main interests as well. I tried putting him in a "The Curve" I have kicking around on his first visit, but the largest A ring I have wouldn't fit.

The A ring is the main ring that goes around the balls and base of the penis. It is essential to holding the curve and all it's cb-x000 brothers in place. If it's too tight it can cause pain or chafing. If it's too loose, the whole thing can slide off.

At first I was discouraged, but by his second visit I had the idea to try ball stretching.

I took a bit of cord and wrapped him up, enough that it would start to feel tight when fully erect. It looked awesome, and gave him a sensation of being marked, but the knot fell apart on his trip home. I had him re-tie it, which worked out for a while, but he started having circulation problems so we had to stop. I also tried using tape, but that didn't work either.

Until we get the chastity device figured out, C has surrendered control of his orgasms on the honour system, and is doing well at it so far. This is still a lot of fun for me, but I want to have him locked in something before we try the more intense orgasm control games.
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