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The Houseboy

After years of searching my wife and I have finally found our first houseboy. He came over this week to start his training, and so far it has been a lot of fun.

It's been difficult to find someone. It's not enough that they be interested in domestic service, there's all the other standard challenges: local or able to relocate, compatible with our kinks, compatible with our personalities, have the time to serve, and have the courage to show up for the first time.

So when one day, after years of being stood up, abandoned, rejected, one shining candidate shows up at the door and offers himself to be used, it's magic.


C is fairly new to kink, but he is serious, and well suited to the role. He's honest, clever, polite, and extremely cute while kneeling waiting for orders. The most important part, as is true for any kind of service role, is he seems to get that warm fuzzy feeling when he is able to make others happy. More than that, he seems to need it in his life, and needs to work for it.

We started him easy for his first day. We taught him how to present himself when he arrives, then we went straight into cleaning the floors and changing the cat litter boxes.

I always wonder with a domestic servant if they'll get bored doing chores, but he seemed to really enjoy it. This is an important trait that makes him good for this role.

I also worried that I might get bored while he does mundane chores, but I didn't. It was great because I was able to do other things, and when I felt like paying attention it was really enjoyable to watch. A naked guy kneeling in front of you to grab a clump of cat hair from under the couch is a beautiful sight.

When he was done with his chores, we let him watch a tv show with us, though he did have his arms bound and was sitting on the floor. I hope he enjoyed it.

I haven't been this turned on in a very long time. It's only been a couple days but I can't stop thinking about his next visit.
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  1. LissaNovember 13, 2010 at 11:19 PM

    Having been on the other end it is amazing to be able to serve. Not only is it that what you are doing is making someone happy but also that with that happiness comes reward.

    Reward is what we all want in the end. We want to know that we are able to fulfill someone and to bring something to them that they don't or aren't able to get elsewhere.

    I look forward to following your journey.

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  2. StarkJanuary 16, 2011 at 2:57 PM

    I have to comment because your post made me smile and understand more. It's nice that you treat c with such a caring hand. Just hearing you say "I hope he enjoyed it." lets me understand that people don't have to be mean to be controlling.

    I'll be following your blogs.

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