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Exploring Breath Play, By Accident

Many times during his visit, K and I sat and talked about how things were going. It wasn't as glamorous as some of the other things we did, but it really helped us to build trust and keep things going smoothly. During one such chat, not long after the failed attempt at a oral, K started nibbling on my finger. It was an adorable way for him to show respect, appreciation, and desire. As flattered as I was, I wanted more.

Soon after he started nibbling, I pushed my finger into his mouth. He didn't resist it, but I don't think he was expecting it either. I probed his mouth, feeling his tongue, reminding him in a very primal way that every part of him was available to me. He still didn't fight, which was even more flattering, but I wanted even more. I pushed deeper until I was gently touching the back of his mouth.

I assumed the funny face he made was a gag reflex, but when we discussed it later, he explained that I was blocking his airway. I was startled, not only because I was accidentally doing breath play, but also that he wasn't opposed to it.

From there, pushing my finger into his mouth became a regular mechanism to test his obedience. Sometimes he would resist, but I would simply grab his hair and do it again. Occasionally, when I wanted to test him further, I would block his airway by pushing on the back of his mouth. I only held his breath for a few seconds at a time; I was being very careful, and I got enough of a reaction that I didn't need to push more.

Our second attempt at oral went much better than the first. I took his hair in both hands and pulled him down onto my cock until my tip was pushing on the back of his mouth. Between the feeling of him gagging on my cock, and his dutiful tongue work when I relaxed my grip, I had a very lovely orgasm in his mouth.

Breath play wasn't the only technique I used to break down his resistance.

To be continued. . .

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