The various scenes I've done over the years have been a lot of fun, but it was always just that, fun. I have long felt the need to try something deeper, something more serious. I keep thinking about finding someone to join our household, some mix between a friend, a servant, and a pet. K can't become that for us for various reasons, but when he came to visit, it created a perfect opportunity to see what it would be like.
We did a lot of things while he was here, but we spent the most time just socializing while keeping him in a submissive role. We took away his clothing and belongings, kept him off the furniture, and treated him generally like a pet.
We touched him and played with him whenever we wanted. If he resisted, we swiftly reminded him of his position, then resumed doing whatever we wanted. We stayed around him whenever we were awake, and locked him to his bed with a short chain around his neck when we weren't.
This was exactly how I always imagined it would go. It was a nervous, surreal experience when we got started, but as we continued it became easier. There was a very real chance that one us might not enjoy the experience, but that didn't happen. It felt natural and good, and none of us wanted it to stop.
The most surprising part was our reaction after K left. We all knew we'd done something special, but I had no idea we could have formed such a strong connection in just four days of playing.
When I went back to work, it felt like all the colour had been sucked out of everything. I was back in the vanilla world, and it seemed wrong. I would get excited thinking about going home, then I would remember that there wouldn't be anyone waiting for me to play with.
K experienced similar feelings himself. We talked it over a few times, and that was a small comfort, but the only thing that really helped was time. It was a gradual process, but everything was back to normal after a couple weeks.
His visit was a valuable experiment that showed us that having someone in our house could be both pleasant and rewarding. It also highlighted the importance of finding a sub that we connect with personally. This is definitely something we want to explore further.
K hadn't been gone long before we started talking about having him back. Our difficult schedules make it unlikely to happen soon, but it's something I hope we'll be able to do again. Until that happens, I will cherish the experiences we had together, and keep him among my closest friends.
We did a lot of things while he was here, but we spent the most time just socializing while keeping him in a submissive role. We took away his clothing and belongings, kept him off the furniture, and treated him generally like a pet.
We touched him and played with him whenever we wanted. If he resisted, we swiftly reminded him of his position, then resumed doing whatever we wanted. We stayed around him whenever we were awake, and locked him to his bed with a short chain around his neck when we weren't.
This was exactly how I always imagined it would go. It was a nervous, surreal experience when we got started, but as we continued it became easier. There was a very real chance that one us might not enjoy the experience, but that didn't happen. It felt natural and good, and none of us wanted it to stop.
The most surprising part was our reaction after K left. We all knew we'd done something special, but I had no idea we could have formed such a strong connection in just four days of playing.
When I went back to work, it felt like all the colour had been sucked out of everything. I was back in the vanilla world, and it seemed wrong. I would get excited thinking about going home, then I would remember that there wouldn't be anyone waiting for me to play with.
K experienced similar feelings himself. We talked it over a few times, and that was a small comfort, but the only thing that really helped was time. It was a gradual process, but everything was back to normal after a couple weeks.
His visit was a valuable experiment that showed us that having someone in our house could be both pleasant and rewarding. It also highlighted the importance of finding a sub that we connect with personally. This is definitely something we want to explore further.
K hadn't been gone long before we started talking about having him back. Our difficult schedules make it unlikely to happen soon, but it's something I hope we'll be able to do again. Until that happens, I will cherish the experiences we had together, and keep him among my closest friends.
Very cool blog! Really! Could you please write more?
ReplyDeleteI really like your idea of sharing life with a third person, a slave/pet/houseboy. I noticed recognition when I read your daily life was colorless after k´s visit.
ReplyDeleteHope you´ll manage this beautiful lifestyle one day